Pink is the Colour of Self Love - Changing My Hair Pink: An Outward Act of Self-Love
In a world where we often prioritize others’ opinions over our own desires, taking a bold step to change something about ourselves can be a powerful act of self-love. Recently, I decided to dye my hair pink, and the experience was about much more than just a new look. In fact I've been pink before, but something changed in me this week. And it manifested it's expression by the way of pink hair. I stepped into a really rather marvellous version of myself that was always there, but I had forgot, repressed, blocked or stopped. Whatever. And this is big. I've had depression for many years and not held myself in good regard (until I read a Joe Dispenza book where it just melted away and hasn't been back since, it can't). I realised recently that I felt unworthy of love, unworthy of care and I hadn't realised all of this stuff - I just thought that I wasn't so interested in looking after myself, maybe wasn't that much of a 'girl' or that 'into' taking care of my self and all that kind of stuff. Which might explain why I'd never had my nails done or been to a spa. It emerged that on a deeper subconscious level through much inner shadow work over these last few months, and healing work in Bali that I didn't think I was worth it. And it was this self concept of myself that wrong, that was blocking me in many ways.
I've been having some deep and profound meditation sessions — where I had been able to let go some pieces of me that have been holding me back. Pieces of an identity that does not serve me well and that is actually not true. But is an identity that I'd picked up through years of conditioning, since being little and it was holding me back, deeply, in terms of manifesting and stepping into my highest self. And this is why coming to Bali and working with its energy is a transformational process.
It was this clicking into place of my new identity, my new awakening and realisation of my true self. The pink hair is actually a celebration of this. And also a reminder to myself, everyday when I look in the mirror (and my old faithful habits creep back in) - a reminder of my individuality and a reminder to embrace the vibrant, unapologetic side of who I am. Something we should all be striving to do.
On a lighter note and not so deep level. I love pink. Pink symbolises Self Love - and I am in my self love era! Bali has helped me step into this self love era... and there isn't any part of me left that thinks I'm not worthy of everything. Everything that I should have always been, all the love that I should have received and now as I step into this pink era. I step into everything that is here for me.
See my blonde to pink hair transformation video here - that I wanted to film to show how much progress I'd made. The old me would never do something like film her hair like this. But this is me. I'm pink now!
Embracing Change
As a mum over 40, I’ve often found myself caught in the whirlwind of responsibilities—caring for family, managing work, and juggling everyday tasks. In the midst of all this, I realized I had been neglecting an important aspect of myself: self-expression. The idea of changing my hair was both exhilarating and terrifying. Would I love the change? Would it suit me? These questions ran through my mind, but I ultimately decided that it was time to embrace the adventure.
The Colour Pink
Pink has long been associated with joy, playfulness, and love. It’s a colour that symbolizes self-acceptance and confidence, and I felt drawn to it as I embarked on this journey of self love. Choosing to dye my hair pink was not just about aesthetics; it was a way to signal to myself and the world that I was ready to step out of my comfort zone and embrace my boldness. Love is one of the highest vibrational emotions that we can feel as humans. When trying to raise one’s vibrations, and live a high vibe life, those feelings of love, joy, happiness are some of the feelings, day to day, that we should be striving to keep as our baseline emotions. And this pink head of hair is a daily mirror reminder to me that I am no longer shades of grey. I'm pink and all her many gradients.
The Process
Dyeing my hair at home in Bali was a bit of an experience filled with anticipation and a few nerves. Because this was a supermarket bought kit, I was not expecting great results. But needs must, I was struggling with 5 month old Bali roots. Armed with my supermarket-bought pink hair kit, I followed the instructions, all while imagining the transformation taking place. I thoroughly recommend some intense conditioning if you plan to do this at home too. It left mine dry, but nothing a deep condition didn't sort.
The Reveal
When the time finally came to rinse out the dye and see the results, I couldn’t help but feel a mix of anxiety and realisation. As I looked in the mirror, the vibrant pink hair staring back at me felt like a reflection of my newfound power and love for myself. It was a reminder that I could embrace change, take risks, celebrate my uniqueness and love myself wholly and fully.
A Statement of Self-Love
Dyeing my hair pink was an absolute permanent outward expression of my commitment to self-love. It was a way to honour my journey, my choices, and my right to define my identity. In a society that often pressures us to conform, making a bold choice like this is empowering. It’s a statement that I am unapologetically me, and I refuse to be boxed in by societal expectations. Not only this it is allowing me to start speaking about things that I would normally keep closed through fear of what people think. This is what's known as stepping into your truth in spiritual circles. And even though I've known things for a while, it's been a process of outwardly projecting the things that I know will help people, if I just face the fear, start talking and 'step into my truth'
Inspiring Others
Since sharing my pink hair transformation, I’ve received messages from others expressing their desire to do the same, but feel too shy or not able to. Whether it’s changing a hairstyle, trying a new fashion style, or simply stepping out of a comfort zone, I believe that acts of self-love can inspire others to do the same.
Conclusion
Changing my hair to pink was more than just a cosmetic change; it was a pivotal moment in my self-love journey. It reminded me of the importance of embracing who I am, celebrating my individuality, and stepping boldly into the world. If you’re considering a change—big or small—take that leap! You deserve to express yourself and celebrate the beautiful, unique person you are. Remember, self-love isn’t just a feeling; it’s an action. So go ahead, make that change, and let your true colours shine! 🌈✨
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